We are the families of Red Hook's veterans: spouses, parents, children, siblings and grandchildren who work side by side with VFW Post 7765 to serve veterans, service members, their families and our community.
The Post and the Auxiliary are one team. When there's an event at the Post, the Auxiliary is usually in the kitchen, at the door, or behind the scenes making it happen.
At the Post
We co-host Post events and fundraisers, run the kitchen with light menus at special events, and help with dinners, ceremonies and gatherings throughout the year.
For veterans and families
We look out for veterans, service members and their families, here in Red Hook and through the national VFW Auxiliary's programs for hospitalized veterans and military families.
In our community
We promote patriotism and support local youth through VFW Auxiliary programs, including scholarship and essay contests for students, Buddy Poppy distributions and Americanism activities.
Since 1914, the VFW Auxiliary has worked to improve the lives of veterans, active-duty service members, their families and our communities. As part of the national VFW Auxiliary, we take part in these national programs.
AmericanismCelebrating patriotic holidays, teaching respect and proper care for the U.S. flag, and hosting POW/MIA ceremonies to honor those who never came home.
Veterans & Family SupportSupport for veterans, service members and their families, veteran and military suicide awareness and prevention, and VFW programs like Unmet Needs and the Military Assistance Program.
HospitalMaking sure our homebound and nursing home veterans are remembered on holidays, collecting for baby showers for our women veterans, and volunteering at hospitals, veterans' homes and VA medical centers.
ScholarshipsPromoting the VFW Voice of Democracy and Patriot's Pen essay contests, plus the Auxiliary's own scholarships: the 3-D art scholarship, the Young American Creative Patriotic Art Contest and the Continuing Education Scholarship.
Youth ActivitiesSponsoring the Illustrating America art contest for elementary and middle school students, working with local youth groups and schools, and recognizing patriotic young people with awards.
“Buddy”® PoppyDistributing VFW “Buddy” Poppies, with donations going to relief funds that help veterans in need.
VFW National Home for ChildrenSupporting the VFW National Home for Children, which helps the children and families of our military and veterans.
LegislativePromoting the VFW's Priority Goals for a strong VA system and encouraging everyone to vote and contact lawmakers about issues facing veterans.
Historian & Media RelationsKeeping a record of our Auxiliary's work in photos and stories, and sharing it through local media.
MembershipGrowing the Auxiliary by inviting others to join nearly 475,000 members nationwide in more than 3,500 Auxiliaries.
Mentoring for LeadershipPairing experienced Auxiliary leaders with members who want to grow, honoring our past while planning for the future.
Tell your story. Your voice moves legislation forward.
The VFW is gathering stories firsthand from veterans, service members, families and supporters. Your experiences help lawmakers understand how their decisions affect veterans and their families in the real world.
It takes just a few minutes to complete the VFW Voices of Service – Stories in Action form. Not comfortable with computers? Stop by the Post and an Auxiliary member will be glad to help you fill it out.
Sharing your story is also a great way to prepare for VFW Auxiliary Legislative Day, when members speak with lawmakers about the issues that matter to veterans and their families.
Upcoming Auxiliary events
Who can join
Auxiliary membership is open to anyone 16 or older who is the family member of a veteran who is, or was, eligible for the VFW. The veteran does not have to be a VFW member, and can be living or deceased.
Spouses
Widows & widowers
Parents
Grandparents
Children
Grandchildren
Brothers & sisters
Step & adopted family
Step and adopted parents, children, siblings, half-siblings, grandparents and grandchildren count the same as biological family. Veterans who are eligible for the VFW itself join the Post rather than the Auxiliary. Post membership →
How to join
Find your veteran's eligibility. VFW eligibility comes from a campaign medal for overseas service, 30 consecutive or 60 non-consecutive days in Korea, or hostile fire or imminent danger pay.
Get proof of service. A copy of the veteran's DD-214 (or similar record) is needed with your application. The National Archives can help you request one.
Reach out to us. Send a message below or ask at the Post. We'll help with the application and welcome you to our next meeting.